Restoration of Friendliness

 
Many thanks to Kim who did the transcript of this lecture.

Alan

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Processing Target Number One: Restoration of Friendliness

(The lecture which targets and stresses the importance of being friendly.)

I think the most important thing to do in handling charge... is to handle
it. (Laughter)

But, because it's sort of antisocial to have charge, most clients do not
want to get into their charge. So one of the things you've got to have is
an excellent carrier wave; and, of course, it's got to be very safe to turn
on the charge. And quite honestly, just a monotone, someone just being
monotone in the session, is not in session. They're surface -- they're
just going over the top of it.

What tells you if your session is going on is they're going up and down the
mood scales. And if you get that sort of "surfacey" type communication,
where they're sort of "spectatingly" telling you about things, sort of push
them in it a bit more. And the way you do that is say, "Well, what did
that feel like, and what was the emotion of that?" All right... "Now,
tell me with that kind of emotion". Because they start to duplicate the
emotion and go right into the upset or whatever's going on.

And that's the key to this. Because one of the problems that I've seen
with processing is that people become more and more detached from life
rather than getting into life. They should get in and be able to play
good. But, if you process them in that sort of detached way and they start
detaching from it, they start talking like they're a spectator from this
stuff, and it isn't going to run out. All you're doing is de-accessing,
and it won't run.

Now, the other key is always looking for the triangle. Now, the triangle
is basically you got the obvious whos they're upset with. So you've got
you, the client, and the obvious whos, which makes a bit of a triangle.
Now, once they go in session, you don't play a part anymore. You're sort
of outside of it. Right? So it's them plus whatever they're fighting.
Well, that's when the hidden who comes up or should be looked for. Because
you want to get all of the charge.

Charge is simply accumulated energy.

Charge on a subject is accumulated energy on the subject.

Charge on people is accumulated energy on people.

Now, charge is an interesting thing in the fact that it's live. In other
words, there are live beings causing the charge to be there. It's not an
automatic charge, you see. So you've always got sort of live stuff going
on. So who are the live beings? Now, the hidden who may have died, but
put it in place; and now the person is dramatizing it out and so on.
Follow? But it's not necessarily a person being in a body.

So when you're again processing, the key is the carrier wave. How good is
your carrier wave at carrying the charge and getting the energy to dissipate?

Realize basically our first target in processing is to get this person
friendly, friendly with himself, friendly with the environment, able to be
a friend to somebody, able to be a friend to himself. So you can almost
say our first state we go for is friendly.

Friendly people do not create charge on others. In fact - friendly people
dissipate charge.

Now, of course, a lot goes into that to be friendly. One of the things is:
To be friendly, you've got to have honor.

One doesn't stay friends with someone that betrays them all the time. You
don't stay friends with somebody that lies a lot. You quickly lose your
trust. Or someone that doesn't deliver what they promised, you don't trust.

And this kind of leads into a semi-type of, what would you call it,
honesty-type process.

You process the positive. Take what are the attributes of a friend, a real
friend, true friend, good friend, friendly friend, and process against
those attributes. You've got to have high affinity, high empathy, good
honest open communication.

They say what they really mean and keep their word. So you make a little
set of honesty questions against this. Basically you clean slate the power
words like Honor, Trust, Loyalty; and then you cross-check for violations.
I don't know that you're going to have to check much because I think they
are just going to fly to view.

I always like that bulletin I wrote on honesty quite some time ago. It is
a really good bulletin to clean slate. And it's very, very important
because basically the one thing you've got as a processor is that you want
your client to be honest with you, no matter how much it hurts, no matter
how much pain it is, how embarrassing it is, et cetera, because that's the
thing that breaks the blocks. So the honesty bulletin, quite honestly,
will run out the withholds, the secrets, the kepts.

And then you can take key terminals in the person's life, actually I would
get the list of all the key people in the person's life, teachers, parents,
brothers, sisters, lovers, friends. I'd keep them general, husbands,
wives, rather than specific because, you know, this person has been married
eight times, you might as well say husbands rather than Fred, Jim, Ted,
Oliver, Marcus, et cetera. "Husbands" fits much better, and then maybe
lovers. Who wants to go through a list of 4 or 5,000 names. So it's like
"lovers". That's right. You spend fifty hours, the whole intensive time,
just getting a list of names. You know. So "lovers" does very good on
that. Plus the beauty about the generalized items, they will go whole
track, if necessary.

So basically what you're doing as you clean these things off, you're
actually making the present time. What you really want then is a list of
people in present time or presence time that they have connection with.

If they're students on course, then it's the supervisor and everybody else.

If they're in a business, then it's their bosses and their workmates, et
cetera.

Usually you will find that most of these harmful acts or secrets or
whatever they got going have been done over and over again to all the
terminals. See. So when they start blowing it off, it starts running
pretty fast after a certain point.

Now, what this does by getting the person to be friendly is, of course, he
doesn't walk around creating charge, or she.

Now the other one, of course, is the area if you've got someone who has had
a fairly abusive upbringing, then you'll have to use the abuse tech on it.
Now, as we know, abuse is not easy because the winning identity is the
abuser. So you've got to process both sides, et cetera, get the package
and handle that. But the first and foremost target should be restoration
of the clients ability to be friendly.

Now, understand the being can't like himself, so one of the benefits of the
restoration of the clients ability to be friendly is they would regain
their self-respect, their self-esteem, their self-worth.

Because it's very hard to like yourself if you don't have any self-esteem,
any self-respect, any self-worth. 50-hour intensive right here, isn't it?

Actually most of it -- the hardest part would be getting the honesty level
in. Once that's in -- because what happens is basically they don't trust
anybody because they don't trust themselves. So it's very dangerous for
them to be honest because they feel they're going to be betrayed. The
reason they fear they're going to be betrayed is because, of course,
they've betrayed.

So you follow? -- The average human being is in that state.

They don't know who to trust because they don't trust themselves. And they
don't know who to like because they don't like themselves.

They can't be friendly because they're not friendly with themselves.

So you almost go up this individuated unit that creates all these
conditions around them because it's an individuated unit that has all these
conditions on self. Now, which self is it on?

Of course, if they find they've got spiritual teammates, then they've got
all these mechanisms they've been using to control them, to negatively
process them, to keep them down, submerged, et cetera, et cetera.

You're always looking at a microcosm when you're looking at a being.

So what state are your spiritual teammates in? Whatever state you
processed them in. If you don't know they exist, well, what are you doing
to yourself? For them to not exist, you've got to make sure you don't
exist. Now, if you have got to try and keep them from existing and you've
got to exist, then you've got to go into domination. This sets up all
sorts of weird mechanisms. So it's kind of nice when they find out fairly
early that they've got other beings around.

Now, I would put on that list spiritual beings, because they are terminals.
Even if they're unreal and they're ghosts and they are
woo-woo-woo-woo-woo, et cetera, et cetera. There's a certain point when
that person gets a realization, wait a second, I'm just dealing with
spiritual beings here, the body is secondary, the mind is secondary, all
these other identities are secondary. All right.

Okay, this is the setup. This is the first setup:

Get the guy friendly, friendly with himself, friendly with the environment.

Obviously if he is withholding his own power, he doesn't feel good about
himself, so he's not going to like himself. So you're going to get
resurgences of power.

If he's in conflict with his goals, a-la, the Prosperity Quick Tips,
they're not in alignment, he's got charge, bypassed charge, and no power.
So almost that has to go in, too. But it's like getting the being to
restore and have their own goals for himself to make himself or herself
much, much better.

Friendly is a very friendly way to get that done.

And as a being comes up scale, their cause level comes up, then they start
seeing their violations. And basically the violations, at the humanoid
level, are social more than spiritual. But every now and again, they'll
slip into oneness, very spiritual, it's very -- like lying or something or
being honest or betraying, some of these things; and it starts, you know,
becoming more spiritual. Now, especially if they're doing courses, if
they're doing the basic courses, they will have so many realizations just
on the presence processes.

It is very good to do these sort of processes.

I believe we've got a environmental harmony process.

We also need an on going positive life and living friendship combination of
processes, which is:

1. Look around here and find someone or something you would be willing to
   like?

2. Look around here and find someone or something that's really real to you?

3. Look around here and find someone or something that you wouldn't mind
   contacting or getting into communication with?

4. Look around here and find someone or something you wouldn't mind or
   would be willing to understand more of?

5. Look around here and find someone or something you would be willing to
   have a higher quality friendliness toward?

And after, if you've cleaned up bypassed charge, I'd run that simple little
process for a few commands on each one, run each one to a win. Now, that
little process, if it's run, I would say, five, six times over, during a
session, or not during a session, over a period of a few sessions, will
become a natural attribute for that person when he goes out in life.

If anything, you can give him the process, write it out, and say, hey, I
want you to run this process each command over and over to a win - do it
four or five times a day.

It's a process I used when I played Pro Ball. Because what it did is it got
me bigger and bigger and bigger until I owned the field. It put me in the
zone.

It'll put you in the zone, that process, put you in the green zone.

So you can call it the green zone friendly process if you want. These are
actually more powerful processes than the recall-type processes. Because
they're live, they're active, and they can be done right here, right now,
continuously.

I have been running this process on and off for over forty years.

Apparently there was a great ad the Super Bowl with running of the
squirrels. Did you see it?

I saw it on my TV set or my computer. But it's so cute. You know the
running of the bulls? It's the exact setup except they used squirrels.
And their thing is that a squirrel is a very clever, adaptive-type animal.
More or less that most small businesses are very "squirrelly", you know.
At any rate, I thought it was very good.

And, you know, I used to just squirrel instantly with all the processors
because I didn't like going back in time because I thought that was stupid.
You know, I was so desperate to get into present time, what the hell did
they keep putting me back there for. So this type of process is a good --
basically what happens to a person in life is they go out of presence time.
See. You can actually switch which process if you want, if it's running
good on the client, what wouldn't you mind in the future. Use the prefix,
what wouldn't you mind being friendly with, whatever the first -- what's
the first command? Look around here and find --

The prefix can be: Considering your future, find someone or something you
would be willing to like. Or Considering the future or your future.

You could actually even run that solo. What you're trying to do is get
your client aware they are on the totem pole of life.

Where they are in the playing of games?

What level of game they're playing?

Is it a worthwhile game? Is it just a basic "Let's go hide out from doing
what really needs to be done game", whatever. Or is it a trivial,
inconsequential - insignificant game?

But basically what you're doing at the lower levels is getting the person
to look at where they're at, how they can change for the better. It's more
or less positive processing as you can see. But when you sort of put in
the undercuts of the violations of all these things, you get enormous
change. If someone was in sales and you take the subject of customers or
clients, you're going to get enormous change on that client. His income
should just go shooo! Because he's not going to have the resistances.
He's not going to have the mental putdowns.

Same thing will occur with any executive if he's got staff.

Something like this will just run very easily. I mean just the simple
question have you ever been dishonest to your staff, or how honest have you
been to your staff, will run all sorts of stuff, you see. Then you can run
the other side. How honest is your staff to you. Oh, they're totally
honest. Sure.

So it's an interesting factor because what happens if you're -- this
actually turns on remote viewing very easily, this type of processing,
surprisingly enough, because you can just go into the area and you will
just permeate that area. You know exactly what's going on. They might get
a bit scared because -- afraid to find out.

We've got -- what have we got on this list here? If you run into a heavily
charged area, pull out your basic lists. Someone or something is stopping
you from achieving your goal, an area of non-comprehension, separation and
disconnection, violated agreement, a violated image, rejected
communication, undelivered communication, unwanted mood, a
refused-to-experience mood, past incident, violated setup in mood,
questions you ask yourself you're giving the wrong answer, wrong item, an
omitted. All right. Yes. It's section three.

Interesting I was getting into section three. The area of charge you
deliberately stayed away from, something you don't want to know, something
you don't want anyone else to know, something that you are avoiding,
someone you're avoiding. It's pretty powerful, the list is. Something you
stated that was not true? Any spiritual teammates accessed by this? Huh,
what's that, very good, education step. These spiritual teammates still
stuck in this? Huh? Good. Someone else you have charge on, something else
you've charge on, boom.

Very comprehensive. Very powerful because it gets -- the whole thing is
what you are looking for is to expand the client into more action, more
love, more truth. And you're going to get reality shifts, tremendous basic
paradigm shifts off this processing like this, doing this. Because as a
person unfixes -- they're going to be stuck in this don't trust anyone,
don't tell anyone, be careful, cautious, whatever. All of a sudden, that
all will start blowing. The person starts to trust themselves, they start
to trust you, they start to trust people around them, they count, they
start to process the people around them. Your lines will start to open up
like crazy if you do this type of processing in the beginning.

So target number one is friendly. Target two, I'm putting these against
the levels, too, would be all the presence-time stuff. That's your prime
identity and all your identities in alignment.

You're not going to get your client's identities in alignment because
initially they're all going to be in incorrect sequences and incorrect
orders of importance.

This is going to separate identities out, by the way. So when you go your
prime identity and then the next and the next and the next and the humanoid
and all that, you want them in alignment, so the being is not in conflict
with their own identity.

You're probably going to have to also have a list of aberrated identities.
They don't want anyone to know. They don't want to know. Of course, these
are the ones that are going to persist like crazy because they're the ones
you can't talk about. They're the ones with the most charge on it.
They're the most antisocial ones, et cetera.

So in a very covert manner, you say, okay, are there any here that you
don't want? So there you get the drug addict, the masturbator, the sex
fiend or whatever, you know, Peeping Tom, the whole bit. And those are the
entities that will cave everything in and put the person in fighting and so
on. Separate them out, clean them out, find where they came from, so on.
And it'll just start pulling apart.

Basically what happens, if you imagine when a being creates something, it's
just pure -- no mass, nothing. It's just pure as it is. As it gets agreed
upon, it gets a little bit more solid. As it gets more degraded, it gets
more and more pictures against it, masses against it, imagery against it.
It's just blacker and blacker and blacker and more and more black and so
on. There's literally billions of pictures pushed or images pushed against
this imagery, this identity.

The most aberrated identities have the most pictures on them. They're the
most charged. The reason they have the most pictures on them is because
you can't talk about them. See. But you get certain identities like
husband or wife or lover or these type of identities, there is a tremendous
amount of life and livingness on those. Been around a long, long time. So
they will accumulate a tremendous amount of charge on them. So don't
expect them to just go tell me about it, huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh, and it'll
blow. It won't. Because this stuff is very compacted. It needs a fair
bit of opening up.

You might have to run the whole grade chart on just those items, and it'll
still keep peeling off. They're very held down seven. Because there has
been a lot of bad living down through time with these type of identities.

But what we want is the presence time ones handled. So basically every kind
of key identity that the person is dealing with in presence time and then
what they intend to do with in the future has very little charge and is
taken up into the green zone. That would be step two. You see.

Um, then you'd want the skills which are basically your grades all picked
up, so that would give you four, five, six -- sorry -- three, four, five,
six, and probably seven. All right.

Then we would want to run games matrixes. Now, there may be a certain
amount of games matrix in the levels as you go up. I'm not sure. As you
obviously can see, a person better learn how to process so he can afford
this one because we're now into thousands of hours of processing to run
these sort of things out. Especially if the person really understands how
many lives he has lived and so on.

Well, once that charge starts to go, you start getting into the more
positive stuff which is creating things and mockups and all that sort of
thing.

The missing stuff has been this bypassed charged interesting enough. It's
turning it on. And recognition -- the problem is that it comes in, it's
outside of time and space obviously. Because some of these beings, you may
be in a body, but you're actually in this higher state creating this war
with this other being and these other beings; and it's all locked in mortal
combat, and there's force and counterforce and charge and countercharge and
all sorts of emotions and so on. And you're sitting down in this caretaker
identity going around cleaning cars and mowing lawns and doing all this
sort of stuff.

Meanwhile, there's your prime identity at war with every other being in the
universe. And there's so much mass and charged generated, you're squished
down to this. This is all you can do and still be mobile.

So you look at the person's mobility in life, their action in life, and
you're going to see that change. You look at a person's comm lines, and
you're going to see them upgrade. They won't upgrade if there's charge on
them, because the charge compresses the being. Okay. It's simple stuff
really, isn't it?

The key to all of this is the unwillingness to experience a certain mood
level. Again, going back in from where could you create or from where
could you experience being found out. Fear, anger, fury, whatever.

There's still -- the real language of the being is emotions. The real
language is not words because words will calm you. But words that are
emoted at the right -- emoted -- you know, the emotion plus the word, all
right, now you got some truth going. But just the word, you get calm, just
the facts, just the significance. All right.

Realize mass is compressed energy, solidified energy.

Energy has a whole range, has all the moods. And basically what we're
dealing with is uncompressing that damn mass. Now, at the beginning, the
being is totally compressed in mass and charge and force and so on. He's
just a dot. You're going to take that dot and move him all the way up.

Now, the scales are really size of beingness. It's very, very simple. The
higher up the scale you are, the bigger the being you are. All right?
It's just complete reversed to that other subject we were in which had you
matching dots or less than dots, dead dots, no dots; and we've got people
that are on that thing, been on it for ten, fifteen years now. Some have
been on it twenty years, thirty years, thirty years. Thirty-three years if
you want to really be exact. Matching terminals with a dot, you know.

So as you go up the scale, you'll notice your comm lines get bigger, you're
more important, you become more influential. Your beingness becomes more
influential. You find that you have to get the knowledge that goes with
it. You have to get the skills that go with it.

And it's a self-generating thing once you start there. It's like, well,
who is the biggest being you can be in comm with? God. What god? The god
that you create or the real god? See. Which god? The Indian gods, the
man gods, the Egyptian gods, the Roman gods, that god? You start going up,
you've got charge on all these types of items. See. The bottom line is
who is God? He's a spiritual being, or she, whichever way. And what sort
of god do you have? Here's what you create and put on that god.

You superimpose all your ideas of what God is, that is God.

So it's like you take the charge off spiritual beings, and how big a
spiritual being are you talking about? Well, the Supreme Being is a
spiritual being, bunch of them, all working together. You want to know how
you just keep going up that scale. And the types of beings get bigger,
more powerful, and so on.

Now the only other area is that the client, if he really wants to win good
and really keep making case gain, has to get into god-type games. He can't
get into humanoid games too much.

The secret of really winning and staying at a high mood level is not making
nothing of humanoid games but minimizing them and maximizing the god games.
But keep a certain balance there, you know. Don't just ignore that
completely and go totally for there because this will come back and bite
you big time. They'll all go degradedly just kept in mind and nice.

It's just when the humanoid ones take over the god games that you get into
real trouble. See. Dumb-ass things like paying rent and bills and all
these kind of things, you know. But if you ever get -- we have got to --
you know, it's like having that target, the target one, friends.

The chart is very simple. It always has been.

It is matching terminals.

Who are you matching terminals with, who are you matching beingnesses with?
The old birds of a feather flock together thing? That's what that was all
about.

Everyone that came out of England knew all about levels of beingness, don't
get out of your class, all this sort of thing. We knew she was going to get
in trouble; she married out of her class.

So as you get better and you get more informed and as you get more
certainty, as you start to like yourself more, you become a bigger, more
stable being. Consequently, bigger, more stable beings are friends, more
friendly to you. And you'll find that your friendships will change as you
go up the ladder to a certain degree, and there will be certain people that
won't go that extra bit. And they, instead of being your friend, they'll
start turning on you, if they haven't already turned, because that's why
they can't be your friend.

So this is the sort of key first target on somebody. And it's funny, you
know, forty years ago, I can always remember thinking to myself when I was
in sales, I was such a snarly, nasty person. I suddenly got the idea, who
would I buy off, someone I liked or someone I disliked? Self-evident.

I'm just like him. You are not going to let him win, are you? Did I say
that right? If you dislike them, you're not going to let them win. And
someone that doesn't like themselves makes sure they can't win. Someone
that doesn't like other people is making sure they don't -- they can't win.

You follow all these simple little things on this being friends and being
friendly.

Every time you complain about something, you're not being friendly towards
it.

Now, that doesn't mean you have to walk around going, woo-woo-woo, the
world is beautiful and everyone is lovely and we have got unconditional
love, ya-da-da-da-da-da-da -- no, crap. You see things as they are.

You can not like something because it isn't likable.

You can not like somebody because they're not likable. And it's quite okay
to say, hey, I don't like so and so because such and such. But you better
make sure that the because such and such isn't a similar of your own.

No, but some people just go around and they screw things up; and no matter
what you do, they screw things up. It doesn't matter how many chances you
give them, they screw things up. So you don't have to keep repeating, the
help factor.

If they keep screwing things up, fine, let them go screw things up
somewhere else.

Then again, there are 6 billion somewhat unfriendly folks on this planet.
How do we know? Says so in the papers. And if you notice, the news points
out all the unfriendly things that happen and et cetera, et cetera. You
know what I'm singing about. Country and western songs tell you about all
the unfriendly things people do to you and how sad it all is.

So the basic target here is the friendship.

How to be friends, how to be a good friend.

That is why I became a processor.

I realized that a processor is the best friend anybody could have. Well,
it was a better friend than the friend I was who couldn't process, put it
that way. Okay. So, that's what we work on.

Thank you.